Love爱情

到底什么是真正的爱情呢？应该没有一个specific的答案吧..

我曾经相信过爱情就是要100%的信任对方，100%的坦白..可是一些周围发生的例子令我对这个看法有所改观..

最近我在工作上认识了一位女同事，第一天看到她我就觉得这个女子很高,身材标准，还蛮漂亮下的，原来已经是个有三个孩子的妈妈了，最大那个女儿都已经7岁了..当时我也很难猜她的年龄，过后她告诉我都接近30了，那么我猜应该是29岁吧，可是看起来真的不像，我一度以为她才26岁…so i guess她应该很早就结婚了吧..过后经过一些对话，才发现到原来她生了第三个孩子的时候才和他老公注册，不过今年初却离婚了，现在有一位要好的男朋友，她没有清楚地说明离婚的原因，可是却说有老公等于没有老公所以就离婚了..

我们聊聊下，也知道原来她还蛮时常和朋友去clubbing的，她说她时常遇到一些男子，手里搂着自己的女友在跳舞可是眼睛却是望着别的女人，她曾经遇过一些一边和自己女友跳舞，一边和她抛眼眉的男子，还趁自己的女友上厕所的时候，走过来和她要电话号码…不过她当然没有给他啦..

过后有一天，我听到她和一位朋友在用电话聊天，还聊蛮久的，不是我偷听，是她在我面前大谈阔论的，凭我听到的对话内容，我做出的结论是对方是位男子，而且认识她已经有整11之久，和她是同一个家乡来的，而且还是有老婆了的，可是我听到她和他的对话还挺肉麻的..例如你过来找我，我就陪你啦，你一天不和她离婚，我都不会答应你的，你就想得美，要他又要我，要挂电话时还muakcs muacks..还不止，对话中，我听到她和电话里的男子说：那个香港的他说要过来找我，他说他已经有女朋友了可是不想和她“做”，想和我“做”，还说等他过来马来西亚后，无论对方有没有男女朋友都一定要“做”…

我听了那番对话后，真的吓到下..到底那名男子和她有什么关系？还有一个香港的..==

我忽然觉得那些男子都很贱，自己有一个了还和另外一个搞暧昧..其实我觉得我的那位同事应该不相信爱情了的，她常说男人都是一样的，只有“一个batang”…

haiz..我改观了，女人千万不要放100%信心给男人，爱情游戏里，是很容易受伤害的，一定要懂得保护自己，永远的天长地久已经很少了，不过我还是相信爱情是一种关怀和照顾..因为我可以从我父母间的爱看到..

我妈妈在茶室卖饼，我爸爸呢一旦没有工作就会去那间茶室叫杯茶，坐下来就这样陪我妈妈聊天，不然在那边坐着看着她做工也好，有时还会载她放工,甚至在那间茶室里和其他档口小贩打好关系，为了就是要有人帮忙互相照应我妈妈..我看在眼里，觉得这种不就是真正的爱情吗？我父亲不是很有钱，到了这把年纪，一间屋子都没有，有时候也会不够钱来还水电费，可是我妈妈却从来没有怨言，她为了这个家，去工作，目的就是不要我爸爸那么辛苦..这样的感情不就远远胜于现代年轻一代的男女爱情吗？

真正的爱情就是要互相扶持，互相体谅，才能永远的…

我忽然觉得一段感情真的很难维持的，很多时候，一些感情都是因为一些因素而勉强维持可是到头来辛苦的还是自己，不过我也觉得爱情不能太自私，只想自己，为了对方，去付出才能得到真正的回报的..

白头到老，真的不容易..

Whole New November

I can't update any other thing not until i finish my England trip Journal..
Finally, I've got it done!
It's a little bit long-winded..but it's so detailed because i want to keep all the memories in here so that i won't forget any single thing happened at there~
So wassup November?

Okay, ever since i come back, i started to miss London very much and i keep my feeling by writing the England trip journal and viewing other people experiences in England..
Anyhow, i still need to face my final exam...
Not feeling good to mention about it..Just let it pass..

Any outing in November?
Yea, for sure..I'm not that kind of person who willing to sacrifice any outing only for the sake of preparing exam..That's just not me!

3rd November

Had a great birthday celebration with my dear friends..It was shinyi 21st birthday..The birthday celebration was at Look Out Point and i gotta tell it is actually not a good place for birthday celebration because there are so windy, we can't even light up the birthday candle for one second ...how sad huh..><
Location: Look Out Point

6th November

It was my grandma birthday celebration..Shame to tell that i'm not sure how old is she..78?79? Okay, i will pay my attention on it next time ..
Nice gathering with my relatives especially my cousins!
Location: Seremban

19th November

Had a great outing with my honey...We went to sing karaoke at Red Box Low Yat and then we went to KLCC for a movie - RED...

A grand new shop at KLCC - Harrods!!
It was a mini size of Harrods from London at KLCC...
How could i miss the chance to take a photo with my lovely Harrods Bear..^^

Yes 4g launch at Lot10, It was crazy and a lot of people there for the latest technology launching..

I like this photo..i think it should be the photo of the day haha..
Kuala Lumpur is not that bad for the night scene!


Sushi dinner at Sushi Zanmai, Fahrenheit88
It was my first try at sushi Zanmai and i've got to said that i'm totally fall in love with it and the price there is not that high as what i expected!
FYI, I visited to Uniqlo as well just wanna to see the reason why there are people willing to queue up for the store grand opening...However, i don't see any reason that worth for me to queue up for it..The clothes there are not really suitable for Malaysia weather even though it is nice and fashionable but what for to buy those thick and warm clothing at here?
Location: Times square, Low Yat, Lot10, Fahrenheit88, Pavilion and KLCC

20th November

My little cousin birthday celebration at his house...
Another nice gathering with all my relatives and especially my cousin...
I finally met my cousin - Newman's girl friend haha..
A great instant photo taken together with my cousins~

I love it!
Location: My aunt house at Alam Damai, Cheras

24th November
A day at Genting..My boy friend and I went to Genting and the main purpose is I wanna apply a Genting World Card haha..
Now is school holiday and so you can see how crowded is Genting even it is only weekday..
We only went into casino and apply a card..
I've got RM20 free credits in my new card and so i spent it all in playing slot machine..I was winning at the first but lose it all in the end ><
Anyway, i was not spending any single cent from my wallet for gamble...
We spent about 3 hours at there and went back home...
The Genting cable car was just finish maintenance however the functionality is worse than before..It keep pause and move, pause and move for several times when we ride up and also back..
Location: Genting Highland, Connaught Night market

Now is time to focus on looking for a job and start working!!

Call me teacher ^^

不懂大家懂不懂我现在有工作，就是在smart reader kid centre教书,这份工作也是low yat forum那边找到的,offer我RM40 per day，working hour from 9 to 1+pm only..所以不是教啦，反正假期在家都是浪费时间的啊…本来那时候她告诉我教到10th DEC 而已的，可是现在又要我教到24th >< 那时候不是刚刚要开学了嘛…

之前我教过补习,可是那么小的年纪还真的是没有教过呢...其实都不是很难教，只是有时候小孩子比较烦下，少少东西都要跟你complain的..><然后也有一些真的很顽皮，也有好学的，不过我是很喜欢小孩子的啦，也没有骂过他们，只是有时候会大声点和他们说话啦，不然他们会听你才怪..><

教了那么久，那天有家长日，我还是第一次以老师的身份见家长，幸好我的communication skill不错，随便随便说也能使家长满意，说什么孩子还小，不要太过force他们去读书，他们喜欢做什么就让他们做吧..学习的东西还有很长的路去走等等之类的

上个星期日还有concert day for children呢，真的是忙到我头转转呢，不过看到他们在台上表演的模样还真的挺可爱的..

其实这件幼稚园的收费也不便宜哦，RM270 PER MONTH还有很多其他收费呢..><

我负责教4 years old class and also mandarin…yes don’t doubt,they are all different races but study mandarin together..

一个学生家长送的,还有一个家长谢谢我教他女儿中文呢…^^那天有一个生日，搞birthday party…~

那天是外婆的80岁生日，一家大小为她老人家庆祝~

times square gift after you spent RM300 and above~gotta say thx to my honey lo haha

i like this picture..merry merry christmas, lonely lonely christmas~

Christmas is just around the corner..^^

转眼间就快要开学了，讨厌下..><